一點心得
因為已經把公司的資料匯入了,工作就算告一段落 ,接下來整個晚上都在試圖沉澱心情,在這麼多個禮拜的忙碌之後,終於可以靜下來檢視自己。
翻閱ptt的文章後,我有一點感想 ─ 我之前實在太過專注於如何讓自己開始喜歡自己,完全忘了這只是第一步,之後還有很多要學的,既然不想把任何一段感情變成實驗性質,就應該要好好做功課。
之前看到Tech Jobs板在討論擇偶條件的時候,真的很反感,這些工程師的心態根本就沒有想要認真對待女性,這樣還想要找到對你認真付出的女性,根本就不可能,就算中了大樂透,我也實在為那女孩感到悲哀。一個人的價值怎麼能夠從外在條件來衡量?討論學歷、身高、漂不漂亮,這些根本就沒有意義。
ROGER
But who Mark are you?
"Mark has got his work" they say
"Mark lives for his work" and
"Mark's in love with his work"
Mark hides in his work
MARK
From what?
ROGER
From facing your failure,
Facing your loneliness, facing the fact you live a lie
Yes, you live a lie tell you why you're always preaching not to be numb
When that's how you thrive you pretend to create and observe
When you really detach from feeling alive
MARK
Perhaps it's because I'm the one of us to survive
ROGER
Poor baby
翻閱ptt的文章後,我有一點感想 ─ 我之前實在太過專注於如何讓自己開始喜歡自己,完全忘了這只是第一步,之後還有很多要學的,既然不想把任何一段感情變成實驗性質,就應該要好好做功課。
之前看到Tech Jobs板在討論擇偶條件的時候,真的很反感,這些工程師的心態根本就沒有想要認真對待女性,這樣還想要找到對你認真付出的女性,根本就不可能,就算中了大樂透,我也實在為那女孩感到悲哀。一個人的價值怎麼能夠從外在條件來衡量?討論學歷、身高、漂不漂亮,這些根本就沒有意義。
ROGER
But who Mark are you?
"Mark has got his work" they say
"Mark lives for his work" and
"Mark's in love with his work"
Mark hides in his work
MARK
From what?
ROGER
From facing your failure,
Facing your loneliness, facing the fact you live a lie
Yes, you live a lie tell you why you're always preaching not to be numb
When that's how you thrive you pretend to create and observe
When you really detach from feeling alive
MARK
Perhaps it's because I'm the one of us to survive
ROGER
Poor baby